219. Your To-Feel List - Sky Banyes
I was striving for achievements—and yet I never felt deeply fulfilled.
We’re all in search of purpose. For me, the form that took was filling up my CV, my schedule and my to-do lists. I was striving for achievements—and yet I never felt deeply fulfilled.
Three years ago, I started illustrating as a fun way to make sense of things. Over time, it became much more. With reflection, vulnerability and the nourishing possibilities of pen and paper as my tools, I embarked on an essential search for meaning. It’s been a deep explorative dive, and what I discovered in the depths of every plunge was feelings. Even in everyday responsibilities such as work and family, I realized that the upstream of every “to-do” was actually a “to-feel”: useful, financially secure, loving, loved.
Now, I consciously first focus on my feelings—instead of my doings—and allow them to guide my path. It has challenged the foundation upon which I’m building my life. The experience has been transformative.
- Sky Banyes